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IN MEMORIAM

 

 

 

Patrick Frank Butch HAYNES.

 

20th March 1934 to 12th September 2013.

 

Arborfield AAS, Intake 49B.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

1950

 

2003

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Announcement posted on the Arborfield 49ers Forum.

 

 

Subject: The loss of a member.  Tue Oct 15, 2013 10:52 am

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It is with the greatest regret that I inform the site of the death of Pat 'Butch' Haynes of intake 49b. Pat had been ill with Alzheimers for a relatively long time. To his widow Dale, family members and close friends, Maggie and I extend our heartfelt sympathy.

RIP Butch mate.

Greg Peck 53B.

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Tue Oct 15, 2013 3:49 pm

Hi Greg,

May I echo your remarks. Whew-it's getting a bit closer, I will have to remember to keep taking the medicine.

I remember Butch well as we were always competing to get the higher marks for machine drawing from Mr Stagg. He obviously redeemed himself when he changed over to armourer from fitter as that was a good step up. He must have anticipated his move to weapons as he carved his name on the bricks at the 25yd range, a place rightly reserved for us armourers!

From what I see of his lifetime achievements, he enjoyed a full life until illness struck him down. Please convey my sympathies to Dale & family if you are in contact. RIP Butch.

Max Warwick 49B.

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Wed Oct 16, 2013 3:43 pm

Always saddened by the news of the recall to HQ of an Arborfield lad, doubly so in this case as Pat was a 'September 49er' Please pass on the sympathies and condolences of Mavis and myself to Dale and their family.

The insidious ailment that attacked Pat would prevent him from sharing his old memories with his loved ones. All too often when an Arborfielder departs, his memories go with him, but in Pat's case he will be remembered in the contributions he made to the 49ers web site.

I have often found when locating and meeting up with old friends and launching in to the 'remember when' mode, the wife will sit there open mouthed, finally pointing out that she is learning about a totally different man to the one she had married, even finding a new nickname for him. As I point out "well I knew him first". The children tend to pass, but the grandchildren are most impressed when they see grandad in a totally different light. I hope that Dale will eventually be able to look in fondly on Pat's memories that we have on site.

Stand easy Pat, duties are all done.

Trevor Stubberfield 52A.

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Subject: Pat "Butch" Haynes. 49B   Thu Oct 17, 2013 11:02 a

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I have just an e-mail from George Mille, telling me that Pat "Butch" Haynes, passed away after a long battle with dementia on the 12th September 2013.Looking back I am glad that Muriel and I took the orportunity whilst on a visit down under  to  fly  across from Sydney to Perth to spend some time with  with him and Dale. As Tee Cee recorded on the AANM centre stone" He will always be there, laughing, full of fun" Goodbye old friend!!!!

Gordon Bonner 49B.

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Sat Oct 19, 2013 10:09 pm

I have been in contact with Dale and I can report that she is coping well and is delighted to have been offered the prospects of a remembrance scroll via the good offices of Roger Traves. The AOBA is doing what it does best in it's own quiet way, offering solace and comfort without fuss and fanfare, all the way across the world for those that it serves.

Greg Peck 53B.

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Subject: Sad to hear about Butch  Yesterday at 7:23 pm.

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I was so saddened to hear about Butch passing on. I remember him well from Apprentice days even though he was in D Coy while I was in C, though he may have moved over to C coy when D was disbanded in our later days. Mostly I remember Butch as a great pal when we did our Artificer Weapons course in 1960, I often visited him and his wife at the time in their MQ in Bordon. Well do I remember our end of course party nightclubbing in London.

Makes me wonder how many of the course are still around now and how much time any of us have.

Geoff Cook 49B.

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Messages posted on the A.O.B.A. Forum

 

by Derek Driver » Tue Oct 15, 2013 2:13 pm

My condolences to Pat's family on their loss.

RIP, Pat

Derek Driver  57A.

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by TeeCee55A » Tue Oct 15, 2013 2:51 pm

 

Stand Easy

No need at last to turn out more as you once did, ‘five minutes before’

No final rub with hasty duster assembling for the morning muster;

Duties now are in the past it’s time for you now to ‘stand fast’,

You did your time, you gave your best, and now you’ve more than earned your rest;

So sleep your sleep Old Soldier - Friend, contented, knowing in the end,

That your old friends will pause awhile, recalling bygone days – and smile.

 

Rest in Peace Pat, you've surely earned it.

Tony Church  55A.

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by barrie parker » Wed Oct 16, 2013 11:33 am

Rest in peace Pat, you've done your stag. the only consolation is the release from that evil disease. Condolences to family and friends.

Barrie and Carole Parker  65C

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by Herbie66b » Thu Oct 17, 2013 12:24 pm

My sincere condolences to Dale, and all the family and friends Pat had in Oz and the FEOFA, thanks for letting us know, Greg.

I will copy this to the "blog" in due course.

Rest in peace, Pat.

John ‘Herbie’ Coles 66B

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Larry » Sat Oct 19, 2013 8:51 am

My condolences to Pat's family. RIP

Larry Jarvis 66B

 

A tribute to Pat.

 

When the gates finally closed behind the last ‘Arborfield Apprentice’ in 2004, we became a limited edition, none would follow in our footsteps again.  As our comrades are recalled to H.Q. the space they leave in our ranks can never be filled.  Whether or not we knew them personally is not a condition of the sense of loss we feel.  They are our own.  When the place where we shared our experiences is covered over in concrete and bricks, the history of the area will be lost in the mists of time but we will remember.  Pat has recorded memories of his life, service and civilian, here on our web site so that, for as long as we can keep the web site ‘on air’, he will be remembered by his fellow Arborfield Brothers.

His contributions can be accessed from the links in the wreaths below.

Trevor Stubberfield 52A.

‘The Editor’ of  ‘Arborfield & The September 49ers’.

 

 

 

 

 

Don't grieve for me, for now I'm free, I'm following the path God laid for me.

I took his hand when I heard his call, I turned my back and left it all.

 I could not stay another day, To laugh, to love, to work, to play.

Tasks left undone must stay that way, I've found that peace at the end of the day.

If my parting has left a void, Then fill it with remembered joy.

A friendship shared, a laugh, a kiss, Ah, yes, these things too I will miss.

Be not burdened with times of sorrow, I wish you the sunshine of tomorrow.

My Life's been full, I savoured much, Good friends, good times, a loved one' touch.

Perhaps my time seemed all too brief, Don't lengthen it now with undue grief.

 Lift up your heart and share with me, God wanted me now, He set me free.

 

(Author Unknown)

 

  

 

 

Pat’s contributions can be viewed by clicking in the centre of each wreath below.

 

 

Pat’s record of life.

 

Start from Pat’s Photos.